"To be a human being means to possess a feeling of inferiority which constantly presses towards its own conquest. The greater the feeling of inferiority that has been experienced, the more powerful is the urge for conquest and the more violent the emotional agitation."
Quotes by Alfred Adler
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Alfred Adler was an Austrian medical doctor, psychotherapist, and founder of the school of individual psychology. His emphasis on the importance of feelings of belonging, relationships within the family, and birth order set him apart from Freud and others in their common circle. He proposed that contributing to others was how the individual feels a sense of worth and belonging in the family and society. His earlier work focused on inferiority, coining the term "inferiority complex", an isolating element which he argued plays a key role in personality development. Adler considered a human being as an individual whole, and therefore he called his school of psychology Individual Psychology.
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Alfred Adler quotes on Life
View all Life quotes →"The greater the feeling of inferiority that has been experienced, the more powerful is the urge to conquest and the more violent the emotional agitation."
"We must never neglect the patient's own use of his symptoms."
"Man knows much more than he understands."
"The chief danger in life is that you may take too many precautions."
"In the investigation of a neurotic style of life, we must always suspect an opponent, and note who suffers most because of the patient's condition. Usually this is a member of the family."
Alfred Adler quotes on Truth
View all Truth quotes →"It is easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them."
"We must interpret a bad temper as a sign of inferiority."
"Meanings are not determined by situations, but we determine ourselves by the meanings we give to situations."
"The only normal people are the ones you don't know very well."
"Every therapeutic cure, and still more, any awkward attempt to show the patient the truth, tears him from the cradle of his freedom from responsibility and must therefore reckon with the most vehement resistance."
Alfred Adler quotes on Politics
View all Politics quotes →"To all those who walk the path of human cooperation war must appear loathsome and inhuman."
"War is organized murder and torture against our brothers."
"War is not the continuation of politics with different means, it is the greatest mass-crime perpetrated on the community of man."
"It is the patriotic duty of every man to lie for his country."
"Our modern states are preparing for war without even knowing the future enemy."
Alfred Adler quotes on Wisdom
View all Wisdom quotes →"The truth is often a terrible weapon of aggression. It is possible to lie, and even to murder, for the truth."
"There is a law that man should love his neighbor as himself. In a few hundred years it should be as natural to mankind as breathing or the upright gait; but if he does not learn it he must perish."
"Exaggerated sensitiveness is an expression of the feeling of inferiority."
"The truth is often a terrible weapon of aggression. It is possible to lie, and even to murder, with the truth."
"A lie would have no sense unless the truth were felt dangerous."
Alfred Adler quotes on Experience
View all Experience quotes →Alfred Adler quotes on Action
View all Action quotes →"No experience is a cause of success or failure. We do not suffer from the shock of our experiences, so-called trauma - but we make out of them just what suits our purposes."
Alfred Adler quotes on Motivation
View all Motivation quotes →"A simple rule in dealing with those who are hard to get along with is to remember that this person is striving to assert his superiority; and you must deal with him from that point of view."
Alfred Adler quotes on Loneliness
View all Loneliness quotes →"God who is eternally complete, who directs the stars, who is the master of fates, who elevates man from his lowliness to Himself, who speaks from the cosmos to every single human soul, is the most brilliant manifestation of the goal of perfection."
Alfred Adler quotes on Imagination
View all Imagination quotes →"Death is really a great blessing for humanity, without it there could be no real progress. People who lived for ever would not only hamper and discourage the young, but they would themselves lack sufficient stimulus to be creative."
Alfred Adler quotes on Work
View all Work quotes →"The test of one's behavior pattern is their relationship to society, relationship to work and relationship to sex."
Alfred Adler quotes on Religion
View all Religion quotes →"The science of the mind can only have for its proper goal the understanding of human nature by every human being, and through its use, brings peace to every human soul."
Alfred Adler quotes on Family
View all Family quotes →"We cannot say that if a child is badly nourished he will become a criminal. We must see what conclusion the child has drawn."
Alfred Adler quotes on Inspirational
View all Inspirational quotes →"The educator must believe in the potential power of his pupil, and he must employ all his art in seeking to bring his pupil to experience this power."